At the time of writing this, I must admit that I'm in a very strange mood. Family stuff ... friendship stuff ...emotion stuff ...injury stuff ...new year stuff...you know ...being human stuff. So when any of my friends feel this way and need a lift, I tell them that they need to work on ways to lift their own spirits. It's good to have friends around to talk to and do that for you, but not everyone has that and either way no one can help you feel better unless you are willing to help yourself.